[Avodah] chumra and kulah

[Eli Turkel via Avodah]

>
> <<Actually, that simply doesn't reflect the most widespread position on
> civil marriage, which in reality is that we seek a get even in cases of
> divorcing couples that had not had chupa vekiddushin, but, and here is the
> key, but we do not seek such a get in cases where it would imply mamzerut.
> Of course, the rule isn't applied entirely directly. Rather, every single
> case is separately analyzed on its own merits. But we do our utmost to
> avoid mamzerut and that does not stand in contradiction with seeking a
> proper get in cases of most divorcing civil marriage only couples.
> --
> Arie Folger, >>
>

chumrot that don't have side effects are fine. As Rabbi Folger states we
try and avoid mamzerut. The question is when there are no children but one
cannot get a "get" for some reason.
Do we leave the woman an agunah or do we rely on the psak of RMF


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Eli Turkel
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