[Avodah] so is she married?

[Micha Berger]

On Wed, Oct 21, 2009 at 06:32:50PM +0000, kennethgmiller at juno.com wrote:
: (... But that's a very specific case, to which RMB seems to be quoting
: RARR as holding that it does not require a get. Which is why I wonder
: what RARR is so worried about, that *in* *general* he recommends not
: giving the ring bifnei eidim.)

I am missing the question. I understood RARR as saying that lemaaseh we
are meiqil, whether he says "Will you marry me" or "Harei at me'ureset
li". However, why enter territory where there are opinions that are
machmir?

Don't we have that all the time, where we try to avoid the machloqes,
but bedi'avad, are meiqil?

Tir'u baTov!
-Micha