[Avodah] Who First Said It? 7 - Mourning during Sefirah

[rabbirichwolpoe at gmail.com]

allan.engel at gmail.com

Further to this debate, the Mechaber (493:1) says:
> Nohagim shelo lissa isha bein pesach le'atzeres ad lag laomer What's
> Atzeres needed for in that sentence?

OK I learned this again tonight with my Havrusa - covering
    SA-Rema
    Ba'er Hetev
    Shaarei T'shuvah 

My chavrusa read 
    "bein pesach le'atzeres ad lag laomer"
To Mean: 
    "Between Passover and Shavuos EXCEPT Lag laomer"

Which implies that the M'chabeir here is disagreeing with Rema and
exempting ONLY 33 of omer and NOT after. This not only disputes the
Rema's comment - it does not "jibe" with the m'chabeir's own position
in s'if 2!

Now this position is new to me, but there was a position in Ba'er Hetev 3
[eliyahu zutta besheim zqeino miprag] that exempts ONLY 33 omer and erev
Shavuos - which sounds a lot like this read of the M'chaber
There is also a dei'ah in ST 1 [Hinuch Beis Yehudah] saying that it is
only muttar to marry after 33 Omer as a snif l'haqeil under duress...

I'm still not convinced that my Havrusa's read is correct, nor do I
sense he is wrong - and so I will need to research further BEH in the BY
to see if I can determine his POV there.

KT
RRW
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