FWIW The Or Zarua has in Birkas L'vanah "shalom alecha" 3 times to 1 individual IIRC The Rema follows this though I don't know anyone who does it that way. See Rema O"Ch 426:2 ----------------------------------------- “Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.” ~ Leo Tolstoy Shalom, RRW