[Avodah] Kivrey Avos

[Micha Berger]

On 21/06/2012 3:42 PM, T613K at aol.com wrote:
> [1] What  about the idea that those who have passed away come back and
> go to the  simchas of their relatives and descendants?  They must know
> about  the weddings at least!  Or do you have to explicitly invite them
> if  you want them to come?

From: Zev Sero <zev at sero.name>
: The  common minhag is to go to the graves and invite them....

But that invitation is also happening in olam hazeh. The problem of
whether meisim following the goings on down here isn't changed by
this minhag. (Which might be common, but didn't hit my neck of
the woods.)

Tir'u baTov!
-Micha