[Avodah] Yizkor 2

[Rich, Joel]

So while we're on the topic, the Gesher Hachayim recommends giving $ prior to Yizkor (he does not source this).  There are sources concerning not delaying payment for this neder especially, but why not pay in advance and use past tense (other than the practical fund raising issue of pulling at the heart strings)
KT
Joel Rich
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