[Avodah] Children at a Wedding

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From: "Joseph C. Kaplan" 
I was somewhat behind on my Avodah reading and thus had the opportunity to
read the entire thread (to date) about children at a parent's wedding, and
my reaction, after reading all the posts was, in typical Jewish fashion, a
question: why should there be any minhag at all?
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The sefer Minhag Yisroel Torah quotes "Minhogei Worm" 235 that the children
of a widow or widower do not attend the chuppah or seuda - but the following
day they go to their father/mother and have a meal there.

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