[Avodah] Hating a Meisis to Kefirah, Should be - Hating any Jew

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RMB wrote: >>And if one discloses the hatred, then even according  to the 
others (which
includes Rashi, Ramban and the Yad Qetana's peshat in  the Rambam), you
would probably still be oveir "lo siqom velo sitor". It's  just not "sin'ah
bilvavekha". <<
 
 
>>>>>
Too lazy to look it up right now but I seem to  remember that "hocheiach 
tocheiach" is right after "lo tisna" and is explained  to mean that you must tell 
somebody what he has done wrong.  That is not  nekama or netira.  It's what 
you're /supposed/ to do.  When you stew  over the wrongs somebody has done (or 
gossip about them), it increases your  feelings of hatred for that person, but 
when you talk to him directly, you give  him a chance to explain his case in a 
way you had not considered, or perhaps to  apologize and make things right, 
and then you don't end up hating him.  The  opposite of "don't hate him in your 
heart" is NOT "hate him openly."    It is, "TELL him openly what is bothering 
you, so that you can remove hatred  from your heart."


 


--Toby  Katz
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