[Avodah] O attend R wedding = kosher eidim?

Michael Makovi mikewinddale at gmail.com
Thu Mar 6 13:19:21 PST 2008


Was: Re: [Areivim] R & R concerts

The subject shifted to Orthodox eidim at a Reform wedding:

R' Toby Katz noted that Reb Moshe Feinstein ruled that R eidim are
unkosher, and thus, there is no wedding, no need for a get, no
mamzerim.

>> R' Toby Katz:
>> Of course if two Orthodox Jews attend a C or R wedding, then they may be
>> kosher eidim and there is reason to suspect the marriage may be
valid after  all,
>> in which case they DO need a get when they divorce and the children of a
>> second marriage ARE mamzerim.  So any Orthodox Jew who does not want to be
>> responsible for creating mamzerim should definitely never go to R
and C  weddings.

> R' Harry Weiss:
>  That is not necessarily correct.  If one out of a Kat of 100 wittnesses in
>  invalid, they are all invalid.  That is the reason of the designation of
>  specific individuals to be wittnesess at a wedding, because they are
>  almost always invalid eidim  (relatives)

And besides, maybe we could play like R' Akiva in the Sanhedrin, i.e.
(hypothetically) ask impossible questions? Could this O guy tell me
exactly how long it took to say the brachot, or exactly how full the
kos was? Or what brand of wine was used? Oh well, I guess he's not a
witness...

If this works, would you have to actually ask the O guy the questions,
or could we just assume he doesn't know the answers and declare him,
automatically, not an eid?

Mikha'el Makovi



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