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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt">R' Joel Rich asked about guests in a shul where the guest's practices differ from the shul's. I am bothered by the question, and even more so by the responses.<br>
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What has happened Porush Min Hatzibur? What has happened to Derech Eretz and simple good manners?<br>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">I have seen them all occur. What triggered the question was a shiur on yutorah where a pulpit rabbi mentioned that a visiting guest
sfardi scholar asked in advance and was granted the right to read his own aliya. I was surprised and then thought of other situations that I had a similar reaction to.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D">KT<br>
Joel Rich<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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