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</o:shapelayout></xml><![endif]--></head><body lang=EN-US link=blue vlink=purple><div class=WordSection1><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>R’ YL, quoting R’ AZ:<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal>From the Aruch Hashulchan (OC 583:4) it seems that tashlich was far from a universal custom; furthermore, the Aruch Hashulchan has an ancillary problem with the custom. He advises women not go to tashlich so as not to create a mixed scene. If they do go, he suggests the men should stay home.18 Evidently, the custom was not very important to him.19<br><span style='color:#1F497D'>-----------------------------------------</span><o:p></o:p></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>His conclusion, “Evidently, the custom was not very important to him,” does not follow from what the Aruch Hashulchan says or what R’ AZ quotes. What R’ AZ quotes is only a proof that the Aruch Hashulchan was more concerned about hergel aveirah then tashlich. Looking inside in the Aruch Hashulchan, one sees that he also mentions that some have objections to the minhag, and he uses that as a reason to be meikil from fulfilling it if it might lead to hergel aveirah. It is not, however, apparent at all that the custom was not very important to him.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Midei Dabri Bo, I just heard a great story (from the baal ha’uvdah) about R’ Nosson Tzvi Finkel. A talmid (who related the story to me) was accompanying him to tashlich. R’ NTzF was unwell and weak and they got to (IIRC) Batei Ungarin he stopped and started saying tashlich. The talmid didn’t start and when R’ NTzF saw he motioned that he should start. The talmid said, But Rebbe, where’s the water? So R’ NTzF pointed to a yellow cap in the ground and said that there was a mesorah that the Mei Shiloach ran under there. So the Talmid said, but Rebbe, there’s no water there now?! So R’ NTzF said, You think too much like an American! You think Tashlich is about the water? It’s about Davening!<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>(Hope I got all the details correct; the gist of it is how I heard it, though.)<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>KT,<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>MYG<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><o:p> </o:p></p></div></body></html>