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</o:shapelayout></xml><![endif]--></head><body lang=EN-US link=blue vlink=purple><div class=WordSection1><div><div><p class=MsoNormal>. In many cases mechila doesnt seem to help.<br clear=all><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#000099'>Eli Turkel</span><span style='font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:14.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>========================================<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:14.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>So what of a case where an older grandfather tells his child who is juggling the responsibilities of working, learning, raising children etc. to please ask him to do any minor errands, research etc. so that the child can focus on what both the grandfather and father believe to be the higher priorities? Is the offering sufficient to overcome those sources you quoted? Does the grandparent have to articulate this offer ? If so, how often?<br>KVCT<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span style='font-size:14.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#1F497D'>Joel Rich<o:p></o:p></span></p></div></div></div><br><br><table bgcolor=white style="color:black"><tr><td>THIS MESSAGE IS INTENDED ONLY FOR THE USE OF THE <br>
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