<a href="http://lifeinisrael.blogspot.com/2012/09/interesting-psak-saying-kaddish-against.html">http://lifeinisrael.blogspot.com/2012/09/interesting-psak-saying-kaddish-against.html</a>
<div>on saying kaddish etc  when the non-frum decedent  specifically  instructed  not to </div>