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<font size=3>The gemara says that you stop learning for Hachnasas
Kallah. What does that entail, going to a Chupah? Staying for
the meal? What about Sheva Brachos? Also the gemara says that
you may not indulge in the se'uda of a Choson and Kallah if you do not
gladden their hearts. Does this include Sheva Brachos?<br><br>
Rav Yitzchok Eizek Liebes in Shu"T Bais Ovi 5:14 says that when the
gemara allows for Bitul Torah for Hachnasas Kallah it is specifically to
escort the Choson to his Chupah as per the wording of the Rema (EH
6:1). The heter of bitul torah does not go beyond that.
Similarly says the Bais Ovi, it is logical that the gemara that talks
about not enjoying the meal of a choson without making him happy refers
to the wedding meal and not the Sheva Brachos. </font></body>
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