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The following are selections from RSRH's commentary on Vayikra
19<br><br>
<font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=4><b>3
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>You must each revere his
mother and his father, and keep My Sabbaths; I am
</i></font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>God,
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>your God.<br><br>
</i></b></font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>Revering mother and
father and sanctifying Shabbos<br>
educate the Jew to the holiness of life — from the day he is born<br>
to the day he dies. </font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>Yiras
Em v'Av</i> </font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>is the first step
toward <i>Kedusha</i>.<br><br>
The essence of </font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>Yirah
</i></font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>is obedience:
subordinating one’s will to the<br>
will of the one to whom
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>Yirah</i>
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>is directed.<br><br>
In our Commentary on the mitzvah of
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>Kibud Av v'Em</i>
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>in the Ten Commandments<br>
(</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>Shemos
</i></font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>20:12) we analyzed the
significance of parents, the<br>
significance that gives them their prominent place in the Torah.
Parents<br>
convey to their children not only physical existence, but also the
Jewish<br>
mission. They transmit to the next generation Jewish history and
Torah<br>
from Heaven’s hand. Hence, it is not the good that parents do for
their<br>
children, but the mission given to the parents concerning their
children<br>
that is the basis of the mitzvah of
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>Kibud Av
v'Em</i></font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>. He who honors his
father<br>
and his mother honors God and His revelation in history and in the<br>
Torah.<br><br>
Here, in the chapter on
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>Kedusha</i></font>
<font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>, the duty to obey parents is
emphasized.<br>
Subordination of the child’s will to the parents’ will,
nullification<br>
of the child’s will because of his parents’ will, is the first training
toward<br>
self-control. Self-control will release the young person from the
fetters<br>
of his baser instincts and give him mastery over the impulses of his<br>
will; it will free the Divine forces in man and lead him to moral
freedom.<br>
This constitutes the whole essence of the character of the
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>Kadosh</i></font>
<font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>.<br><br>
Here, Scripture does not say
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>terah</i>
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>and
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>teshmor</i></font>
<font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>, in the singular — as<br>
in the Ten Commandments — but
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>teraoo</i>
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>and
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>teshmaroo</i></font>
<font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>. Not only individuals<br>
are to fulfill these two fundamentals of Jewish morality; rather,
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>Kibud Av V'Em<br>
</i></font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>and
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>Shabbos
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>are to leave their imprint on
the whole Jewish national<br>
character. Because of them, God becomes our God; through them, our<br>
homage to God is made manifest. They are the two pillars of the
holiness<br>
of Jewish life. As long as these pillars are in place, there is a basis
for<br>
our very relationship to God — and God says of us:
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>Ani Hashem
Elokechem.</i></font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>
Experience,<br>
too, teaches us that when one of these two pillars falls, the<br>
other falls also.</font></body>
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