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RSRH offers the following insights into Yosef's behavior towards his
brothers.<br><br>
<font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=4><b>42: 9
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>Yosef remembered the
dreams he had dreamt about them, and he said to them: You are spies! You
have come to see the nakedness of the land.<br><br>
</i></b></font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>We must attempt to
explain Yosef ’s behavior, on the basis of what is<br>
written in Scripture.<br><br>
We would have thought that, if only for his father’s sake, he would<br>
make himself known to his brothers at once, especially since he had<br>
already recognized the hand of God in all that had befallen him and<br>
had learned to appreciate all his misfortunes — including his
brothers’<br>
transgression against him — as Divine instruments for shaping his
ultimate<br>
happiness.<br><br>
Also, a man of Yosef ’s intelligence could not have believed that he<br>
was obliged to put himself at the service of his dreams. If a dream
has<br>
import, one can leave its realization to the One Who sent it.<br>
Only considerations of absolute necessity could have brought Yosef<br>
to follow a course of action that otherwise would appear to be
senseless<br>
harassment, of which one cannot suspect Yosef, not only because of
his<br>
moral character but also because of his intelligence, which no one
can<br>
deny. If we place ourselves in his position, we arrive at the
following<br>
explanation:<br><br>
If Yosef had wanted to remain a prince and nothing but a prince<br>
in the eyes of his father and brothers; if he had not cared to return
to<br>
his family as a son and brother, he would not have needed to resort
to<br>
all these contrivances. However, Yosef who, even as an Egyptian
prince,<br>
raised his children in the spirit of the house of Ya’akov; Yosef
who,<br>
projecting even beyond his death, insisted that his bones should be
laid<br>
to rest in the land of his fathers — this same Yosef felt that he
would<br>
have to bring about two changes before he could make himself known<br>
to his brothers:<br><br>
(a) He should be able to change his own opinion of his brothers;<br>
but above all, (b) his brothers should change their opinion of him.<br>
Their feelings toward one another would have to change completely,
in<br>
order for a warm and close relationship to prevail between them.
Otherwise,<br>
even if Yosef were physically restored to his family, his family<br>
would be lost to him, and he to them.<br>
It was only natural that Yosef bore resentment toward his brothers,<br>
and that he remembered the callousness in which they had ignored his<br>
entreaties from the pit and disregarded the pain they would be
bringing<br>
their father. These feelings could be erased only by proof that his
brothers<br>
had undergone a complete change of heart.<br><br>
It was therefore necessary to test his brothers, to see whether they<br>
would again be capable of depriving their father of a son — and this<br>
time for real and compelling reasons. The real possibility of life
imprisonment<br>
and the specter of their families starving at home would perhaps<br>
weigh more heavily upon them than any imagined threat from Yosef ’s<br>
supposed thirst for power (see Commentary above, chap. 37). This
test<br>
was of vital import for Yosef ’s own feelings. Only if his brothers
passed<br>
this test would he be able to banish from his heart the bitterness
that<br>
remained.<br><br>
But the second, and perhaps even more important, consideration<br>
was this: Yosef remembered his dreams, how they had caused his
brothers<br>
to suspect him of lust for power — to the point that they felt<br>
threatened by him and considered themselves entitled to commit even<br>
the gravest of all crimes, in supposed self-defense. If this was the
case<br>
when he went about among them in his embroidered coat, how much<br>
more would they now have to fear him when he was not only a “king”<br>
in fact but also had cause to hate them and, in the manner of
ignoble<br>
souls, to take his revenge on them!<br><br>
It was therefore imperative that the brothers should come to know<br>
Yosef ’s true character, and toward this end it was necessary — first
of<br>
all — to appear before them in his actual position of power. Until
now<br>
they had known him merely as a <i>masbeir</i>, a retail seller; perhaps
they had<br>
taken him for a lowly clerk of some petty official. Now he must
present<br>
himself to them as the <i>shalit</i>, the governor. They must be made to
realize<br>
that he could do with them as he pleased. If, nevertheless, he would
deal<br>
kindly with them and repay evil with good, he would have reason to<br>
hope that this would cure them of their erroneous notions about him.<br>
In short, at the moment when he would identify himself to them<br>
as their brother Yosef, the blindfold would drop from their eyes,
and<br>
it would be possible for
</font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3><i>both
</i></font><font face="Arial, Helvetica" size=3>Yosef and his brothers to
completely erase<br>
the past. Only thus could Yosef hope to be truly restored as a son
to<br>
his father and as a brother to his father’s children.<br><br>
If we are not mistaken, these same considerations were also the ones<br>
that kept Yosef from establishing contact with his father during the<br>
years of prosperity. What good would it have done his father to
regain<br>
one son and lose ten others, and to see tension and enmity
prevailing<br>
between his sons?!<br><br>
To attain this end, all of Yosef ’s contrivances were essential and
—<br>
in our view — entirely worthy of Yosef ’s wisdom.<br>
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