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<DIV><FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent" face=Arial color=#000000
size=2>RMB wrote: >>And if one discloses the hatred, then even according
to the others (which<BR>includes Rashi, Ramban and the Yad Qetana's peshat in
the Rambam), you<BR>would probably still be oveir "lo siqom velo sitor". It's
just not "sin'ah<BR>bilvavekha". <<</FONT></DIV>
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<DIV>>>>>><BR>Too lazy to look it up right now but I seem to
remember that "hocheiach tocheiach" is right after "lo tisna" and is explained
to mean that you must tell somebody what he has done wrong. That is not
nekama or netira. It's what you're /supposed/ to do. When you stew
over the wrongs somebody has done (or gossip about them), it increases your
feelings of hatred for that person, but when you talk to him directly, you give
him a chance to explain his case in a way you had not considered, or perhaps to
apologize and make things right, and then you don't end up hating him. The
opposite of "don't hate him in your heart" is NOT "hate him openly."
It is, "TELL him openly what is bothering you, so that you can remove hatred
from your heart."</DIV></DIV></DIV>
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