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size=2>>>my husband asked the hostess if she had a piece of cold
chicken in <BR>the fridge or something else fleishig he could
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size=2>A couple of people wrote me off list to ask why it was OK to embarrass
our hosts or to say that asking the hostess for something not on the
menu is rude. Obviously my husband felt comfortable enough with
our friends that it wasn't an issue. They were (are) knowledgeable
people who weren't surprised. They know halacha and they know my
husband! It wouldn't be appropriate with everybody or in every
circumstance to speak up but sometimes it is.</DIV>
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