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<DIV></DIV>I can remember countless funerals that&nbsp;I have attended where the 
rabbi begins his remarks by saying, "I know it's Nisan and we are not supposed 
to be giving hespedim, but..." -- and then proceeds to give what any person in 
the&nbsp;room would perceive as a hesped.<BR><BR><BR>
<DIV style="CLEAR: both">Michael Feldstein<BR>Stamford, CT </DIV>
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<DIV><SPAN class=664144619-08022008>That's why I asked, it seems like a version 
of&nbsp; nisht on shabbos geret which is used as a matir :-(</SPAN></DIV>
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