R"n Toby Katz quoted my post, where I wrote: > But the OP, as posted, seems to include a hava mina that RYBS's > psak might go so far as to suggest that I'd consider sacrificing > my child's -- or someone else's child's -- chinuch in order to > avoid supporting a non-Orthodox day school. And I, for one, am > not willing to consider that option. All I meant to say here is that one should not, b'shita, automatically exclude non-Orthodox day schools from consideration, merely on the sole grounds that they are non-Orthodox. Rather, one should consider that fact among the many other factors that I wrote about in my post. It is possible that the public school might be an even less desirable option than the non-Orthodox day school. RTK wrote: > Do not think, "The non-O school provides a good chinuch but we > don't want to show support for non-O." Rather, as bad as the > chinuch might be in public school, the education in a non-O > day school is /even worse/. It is very unfair to make such blanket statements. Both schools deserve a cursory lookover, at the very least. > In public school he won't learn anything about Judaism at all > and will be left a tabula rasa, for his parents or outside > tutors to fill in later. Surely the word "later" was included by mistake, as dedicated parents will try to teach their children as much Torah as they can. > In the non-O school he will learn all kinds of sheker, which will > be exceedingly difficult to eradicate from his mind later on. > Much harder to write on a palimpsest than on a tabula rasa. I totally agree with this. But it is only one factor of many. > In the "community" day school in Chattanooga where I taught... Yes, sigh... You've written about those experiences many times, and I don't deny a bit of it. But it is unfair to think that all schools are like that one. I grant you that most might be similar, but Who knows if *this* one might be among the not-so-terrible ones. Or at least, not as terrible as the local public school. Just so that I am perfectly clear: I am NOT presuming that a non- Orthodox day school is better than a public school. I am simply saying that it should not be discounted sight unseen, because the public school might be even worse. Akiva Miller