What is the origin of the concept that a choson is like a king?<br>In the old days that kiddushin and nisuim were separate which state<br>was like being a king?<br><br>Also it is not completely clear when it begins. REMT assumes that it starts
<br>under the chupah. For Tachanun the general minhag that I know is not to say<br>tachanun at the mincha right before a wedding before the shekia. Some shuls do<br>not say tachanun in the morning before an afternoon wedding.
<br><br>kol tuv<br clear="all"><br>-- <br>Eli Turkel