[Avodah] Erev Shabbos Thoughts

[Cantor Wolberg via Avodah]

> "Yishmael", the name, is also in future tense

...which means "he WILL hear or listen" which fits in with his personality
and character. Presently he doesn't listen and does what he pleases. When
he gets old, he will then listen.

> And while "Yishmael's" name is about listening, not tzechoq, is not
> listening MORE fundamental to a healthy relationship?

A healthy relationship is fundamental with many elements: one of which
is certainly listening NOW, not in the future. Can you imagine telling
your child to do something and he says I'll do it in the future. He
isn't even listening because as you point out "He WILL listen -- a lot
of good that does for the present.

And psychologists will tell you that a healthy relationship must have
laughter and humor which can only increase the health of a relationship.