[Avodah] Sources for Not Covering Hair?
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Tue Jul 28 13:37:06 PDT 2015
From: Meir Shinnar via Avodah <avodah at lists.aishdas.org>
>> That is the crux of the issue -- not whether we wish to pasken that this
is muttar for ourselves (or for those who listen to us..) -- but how we
view those who follow a different shitta -- and anyone who suggests that
RYBS viewed his wife as nonobservant or not fully halachically committed
is motsi la'az and needs to go to her kever
[snip]
That issue about the rav's wife not being unique is important -- it
was a shitta in lita -- even if one the rav may have disagreed with,
it was not one that was hutz lamachane. That is the crux of the issue. <<
Meir Shinnar
>>>>
[1] No one has ever suggested that RYBS viewed his wife as "nonobservant"
so nobody has to go to her kever, although anyone who wants to may do so.
I assume her children and grandchildren go on her yahrzeit. The line
between observant and nonobservant is pretty clear, even though all of us
sometimes sin. I have yet to hear of anyone saying that if a woman keeps
Shabbos, kashrus and taharas hamishpacha, but does not cover her hair, she is
"nonobservant." However if you know of a person who does say that, please cite
the source, thank you. Maybe he is the same person who says that if you
talk loshon hara you are nonobservant -- and therefore there are only about
500 observant Jews in the whole world, if that.
[2] There is no "different shita." There was no "shitta in Lita"
allowing married women to go out with their hair uncovered. What there was in
Lita was the winds of Haskala, Reform and sliding, sliding, sliding away from
Torah, more marked among the women even than among the men. Sarah Schnirer
noted that there were chassidishe homes in Poland where, after the Friday
night Shabbos meal, the teenage girls and even the mother would go out to
see a play at the local theater. If there was slippage in Poland, where
chassidus was strong, you can just imagine what was going on in Lita, where
there was nothing to capture the hearts and minds of people who were not
themselves talmidei chachamim -- viz, the unlearned masses, and the women.
--Toby Katz
t613k at aol.com
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