On Tue, Feb 14, 2012 at 12:31 PM, Micha Berger <micha at aishdas.org> wrote: > I took the story to mean it's "assur", IOW, bad mussar because the > likelihood of causing a fight was too high, not literally assur.... Bottom line, R' Shmuel Kaminetzky told me that one is not allowed to speak LH about himself. KT, MSS