[Avodah] pushing for moshiach/shiduchim, etc

[Micha Berger]

On Fri, Oct 28, 2011 at 08:43:39AM -0700, Harvey Benton wrote:
: if ever anyone pushes for something, the natural reaction
: is to push back or to say "no thank you";
...
: in the spiritual worlds, do you  think it is  the same??

How does pushing someone make it more likely that they would say "no"?
Can you think of a psychological linkage that doesn't display the kind
of pettiness Hashem wouldn't illustrate in His actions to us?

:-)BBii!
-Micha