[Avodah] so is she married?

[Micha Berger]

On Mon, Oct 19, 2009 at 02:41:02PM -0700, Saul.Z.Newman at kp.org wrote:
: http://achaslmaala.blogspot.com/2009/10/nefesh-keshura-bnefesh-proposal-did-her.html
: someone should  tell them  to ask this shaila,especially if she was going 

Lehefech... I could see arguing that since she intends to cover her hair
only after a later the chasunah, she (at least) clearly did not intend
qiddushin until then.

BTW, such conversations about real people is a little dangerous, as
qol is part of the definition of who we assume is married, and we could
inadvertantly create a qol that makes their situation more complex.

Tir'u baTov!
-Micha

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