[Avodah] Mitzvah Haba'a BeAveira
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T613K at aol.com
Wed May 21 10:14:09 PDT 2008
>>So the question then is, if she of her own free will decides to hug
him, is there a certain level of emotional need of his that justifies
this act, the same way, for example, a man can reciprocate a woman's
handshake (after she's already extended her hand) to avoid shaming
her?
If so, why is it not mitzvah ha-ba'ah ba'averah? <<
Mikha'el Makovi
>>>>>
It is not a mitzvah haba'ah be'aveirah because it is not a mitzva at all.
There is no conceivable scenario under which giving this guy a hug to comfort
him would be a mitzva. IF this particular guy would benefit just as much
from a hug from his grandmother -- or from the handyman -- as from a hug from a
pretty young girl, THEN you might be able to say that he just really "needed"
a hug. But the scenario you describe -- there is just no mitzva at all.
If physical contact were necessary for some other reason than emotional
comfort -- for example, if a Hatzala volunteer was loading a woman into an
ambulance, or a dentist was filling a tooth, or a nurse was taking a man's blood
pressure -- then there is still no "mitzva haba'ah be'aveira" because there is
absolutely no aveira in such cases.
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