[Avodah] Your brother's a Mumar; here's the solution!

[Moshe Y. Gluck]

R' ZS:
> But for a couple who are marrying
> and in love to take seriously the possibility that the marriage will one
> day go sour, and they will start to hate each other, and they will come
> to regret this marriage and this bi'ah that they now so enthusiastically
> want, I can't accept that this is psychologically possible for anyone.

Couples in love sign prenups all the time. Also, the RCA, for example,
pushes their prenup as a Takanas Harabbim - if you sign it, then those
others who might need it will also sign it, and it will help them. So this
could be the policy also - be Mekadesh Al T'nai, so that those who need it
will not end up being Agunos.

KT,
MYG