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<span>Posted:</span> 21 Jan 2008 09:31 PM CST</p>
<div style="margin:0;font-family:Times New Roman, Times, serif;line-height:140%;font-size:12px;color:#000000;"><p>My son Shuby said something interesting to me over lunch today. Shuby is a very cute nine-year-old little boy with Downs. His ability to actually articulate the words isn’t caught up with his ability to decide what to say, so our conversations involve some checking what he was trying to say, some signing, etc…</p>
<p>After I gave him his food, Shuby said “Thank you, ma’am.” I explained that I’m a man, and “ma’am” is only for women. If he wanted to add anything, the word should be “sir”.</p>
<p>Shuby then said something, and signed “<em>davening</em>” — hands holding <em>siddur</em> and <em>shuckling</em>.</p>
<p>Checking, I asked / translated, “I go to shul because I’m a man?”</p>
<p>“No,” Shuby explained, “Daddy is a man ’cause he goes to <em>shul</em>.”</p>
<p>The line of reasoning he awakened seems quite sound.</p>
<p>It’s not that women are pardoned from the obligation of attending <em>minyan</em>. It’s that souls of which G-d wants to obligate in <em>minyan</em> that He makes as men.</p><div class="feedflare">
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