[Avodah] Aveilut-kabbalat shabbat

[Rich, Joel]

I'm not sure I understand why an avel would not say kabbalat shabbat
byachid  (what part of aveilut is contradicted by kabbalat shabbat)

In any event, given that many shuls daven mincha late on Friday so that
they are finishing mincha close to shkia, iiuc everyone is supposed to
be mkabell shabbat before continuing.  If so, why would the avel stay
out until after lcha dodi as everyone has already been mkabel shaabat
and his late entry seems a aveilut bfarhesia?

KT
Joel Rich
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